NLP for Attraction: PUSH/PULL, Fractionation and Rapport
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fractionation is a is a meta not operator it is
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it is operation all in pretty much everything we do
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approximation awake at night perspective is basically the process of taking
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somebody into trance
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a trance mop-up
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how we define chance thing to me in a trance
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to some degree taking out of that trance
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to a certain degree and then re
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inserting memory inducing that friend an honest and real
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have made their way into the global hey if you haven't read the book
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getting report a new
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or I should say a connection and then removing it
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and then
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giving it back to them
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which is not I'm not push-pull
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but it relates to this process a lot
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this aspect goes right to the rec program
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now we have three levels to bring you have the lizard brain you have olympic
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system you have in your cortex
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That transcript from You Tube is completely wrong. I’m surprised you posted something so grievously full of errors. Here is another transcription of this video. It’s not perfect, but some of the words couldn’t be made out due to the sound quality. But it is 98% accurate.
Student: We all know that one of the things that immediately comes to mind is there is a lot of NLP practitioners in the world, right?. And lately I’ve been using it as a boundary position where I notice that people come out of rapport. Let’s not do that again.
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David: Right
Student: and I know there is a way to break rapport and coming back into it. I would kind of like to know more about that. Because I keep hearing about it.
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David: Do you have a context in mind? I know you do.
Student: Well one of the simplest things that I can think of is why and how does it work and is this the same as a fractionation.
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David: It is a type of fractionation.
Student: OK
David: We’re talking about breaking rapport and getting it back. That’s the process.
Student: yeah yeah. I don’t think that people in the back …???.
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David: So does everybody understand what fractionation is. Fractionation for those of you who may eventually view this video someday.
Oh and By the way, Fractionation is a meta hypnotic operator. It is operational in pretty much everything we do.
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But fractionation from a hypnotic perspective is, basically the process of taking somebody into trance. A trance. And we’ll have to talk about how we define trance. Taking somebody into trance, to some degree. Taking them out of that trance, to a certain degree and then re-inserting them or reinducing them into that level of trance again.
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The phenomenon that is generated in that process that happens is that when we reinduce them into that state, they tend to go deeper into it.
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I do this actually when I’m using,… When I’m taking somebodies body and I’m taking them one way and then I’m moving them another way. And everytime that I move them they seem to get lower and lower to the ground.
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Because what I’m really doing there is that I’m actually tapping into their nervous system at a somnambic level, at the appropriate receptor level and I’m changing my state, and I’m feeling in their bodies, where their resistance is, and where it isn’t.
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And then I move my body along the vector of zero resistance, and their body comes with me. Until I reach a point of resistance, at which point I recalibrate, deal with the zero resistance is and then move my body along that new vector and they come with me. And then I feel it and there is going to be a point along in their range of motion that they stop and by the third or fourth time then I’m done.
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Usually on the backs or on their front. … wondering how they got there. I can get more sophisticated but that’s in a very literal sense is kind of what we do with fractionation. Okay, and in the context of what we’re talking about.
Most of what you’re talking about comes from is actually going to come from the induction. And they have this thing called PUSH/PULL.
Now, oh by the way, induction techniques have made their way into the corporate world.
If you haven’t read the book “Pitch Anything” by Oren Klaff, get it.
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Then go out and get “Real World Seductions” by Swingcat. Ok, that’s pretty much the direct spiel.
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But PUSH/PULL is basically
• Getting Rapport or a connection
• And then removing it
• And then giving it back to them
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Student: And I’ve had that happen to me before in social situations. I didn’t even realize I was doing it, I would talk for alittle while and I would stop, and then I would talk for alittle while and I would stop. And by the end of it, they were mirroring everything I was doing. It was pretty wild. I wasn’t really trying. I didn’t even think about it until afterwards. And then I realized, that’s what happened.
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Student: I’ve actually seen that used that as a distraction. And heard them say, please turn it back on. Because that feels great. Oh you mean, oh wait, …those guys are…. ???
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David: you saw me do it on the bonus day for our full influence. We were doing erotic hypnosis day. I had 5 or 6 girls and one was just … well there is always one…. The tough case. right. And by the end she was trying to grab onto me.
Its on one of my other video programs that is now available. I didn’t bring any with me.
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David: and another thing that we talk about, but it is not NLP and not PUSH/PULL but it relates to this process, a lot.
We call it a “key stimulus” does anybody here know what a Key Stimulus is? Key Stimulant is very big when you’re studying wildlife, animals and things like that.
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A key stimulus is a trigger that creates an instinctive psycho-physiological response. One of the best ones is that there is a particular species of bird that has this little red dot. The mother bird has this little red dot on its throat. And it goes out and it collects all this food. And it comes back to the nest and the baby bird in some instances will take a stick and hit that spot on momma and momma then regurgitates the food to the baby bird.
One of these directly relates to PUSH/PULL and that is the fear of rejection and ostracization. This aspect goes right to our reptile brain.
Remember that we have 3 levels to the brain.
Reptile brain
Limbic system
Neocortex
The lizard brain is what makes you do all the things that you do. OK. You’re not talking to the lizard. You’re not talking to anybody we’re talking to. Ok.
In a book called “Reptile” which cost about $500. Written for lawyers, by lawyers for lawyers. Who try to win multi million dollar lawsuits. Which is all about how you present in such a way that you engage the reptile brain.
I’ll give you an important quote from the book.
“I am the reptile. I do not get angry, I make you angry so that you will do what I want. I do not get afraid, I make you afraid so that you will do what I want.”
The lizard is only concerned with survival and passing on its genes.
OK, so any of your messages are going to relate in some way to procreation or survival.
On a biological evolutional level we are communal creatures. We are social creatures. Science shows we experience physical pain when we are ostracized.
To the point where we have to take an aspirin to feel better. Ok. When somebody connects with us or we connect with somebody, and all of a sudden they take it away, our reptile brain, sympathetic, says we feel like we’ve been removed from the group. We’ve been banished and we go into fight or flight mode.
So anytime we can couple a key stimulant with our message, and the more we do it, fractionation sets in, until they are doing whatever they can to make you like them more. They induce themselves.
Wow Gray, That was so completely cool of you to do. I just did a quick cut and paste of youtubes automated transcript and threw it up on the site. I meant at some point to go back and clean it up but honestly I got so busy I just never had a chance to come back and handle it. Thanks so much for doing this.
Your Friend,
David
I’ve already done the same thing with a couple of other lessons. Would you be interested in them? Basically I transcribed them and added a few answers, links, and info.